If this sounds familiar, you’re definitely not alone. The good news is, there are ways to turn it around without guilt-tripping yourself or feeling like a hypocrite. It all starts with understanding why it happens and what you can do to change it.
Why Being on Time Matters More When You’re the Manager
Your arrival time sends a powerful message to your team. Whether you mean to or not, you’re modeling behavior every day. When you’re regularly late, even by just a few minutes, it signals that punctuality isn’t a top priority. That can chip away at your authority when you ask others to be on time—and it can quietly breed resentment among staff who make the effort to show up punctually.
Being on time helps you start your day with calm and control, rather than stress and damage control. It sets the tone not just for your day, but for everyone else’s.
Common Reasons Office Managers Run Late
Let’s look at a few patterns that might be contributing to your tardiness:
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You focus on your arrival time, not your departure time. If you tell yourself, “I have to be at work by 8:30,” that’s fine—but what matters more is, when do you need to leave the house to make that happen? Without a firm go-out-the-door time, it’s easy to cut things too close.
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You don’t account for the “unexpected.” Traffic, forgotten keys, a coffee spill, a kid’s last-minute school request—real life doesn’t always follow a schedule. If you’re not padding your time with a buffer for delays, you’ll always be scrambling.
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Your morning routine is too ambitious. If you’re trying to fit in a workout, make a hot breakfast, and catch up on emails before you leave, it’s no wonder you’re late. The morning isn’t the time to pack in extra tasks—it’s the time to simplify.
Habits That Can Help You Be On Time—Consistently
Here’s the good news: Punctuality isn’t a personality trait. It’s a series of habits you can build like anything else. Try these strategies:
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Reverse-engineer your morning. Work backward from the time you want to walk into the office, not just pull into the parking lot. Then figure out what time you need to leave home, and make that your non-negotiable departure time.
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Add a buffer. Build in an extra 10–15 minutes to your routine for unexpected delays. If nothing goes wrong, great—you’ve bought yourself some breathing room. If something does, you’re not already behind.
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Prep the night before. Lay out your clothes, pack your lunch, get your bag ready, and make a quick checklist of the next day’s top priorities. That five or ten minutes in the evening can save you double that in the morning—and reduce your stress.
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Go to bed on time. It’s not always easy, but a good morning starts the night before. When you’re well-rested, you’re far more likely to stick to your routine and avoid last-minute dawdling or hitting snooze five times. Or sleeping right through your alarm, which can get the day off to a terrible start.
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Use gentle but firm reminders. Set a “wrap-up” alarm to start getting ready to leave the house. Treat your departure time the same way you would treat the start time for a meeting with your boss—non-negotiable.
Be Honest and Own the Change
If your team has noticed your tardiness, you don’t need to make a dramatic announcement—but it doesn’t hurt to acknowledge the shift. You might say something like:
“I’ve been working on getting in a little earlier and giving myself more time in the morning. It makes a difference.”
That small statement can reinforce your leadership and show your team that you’re not above making improvements too.